Just how many times can my teenager say "I hate you" before a morning cup of coffee? Well, in my case about 10. Thanks to a friend, I've started working through The Total Transformation. Its supposed to help me with my kids & their challenging behaviors. Mean while, I'm running out of things to remove from Maiya's room. She lost the privilege of a door now, which makes it all the easier to remove more items. She no longer has her computer or makeup, and now it looks like hard labor is inevitable. I'm wishing I wouldn't have sprayed the weeds with Roundup, I could have given her hours of unusually cruel and torturous weed pulling.